Last updated September 23, 2026
When you create an invite we store what you typed: her name, the date, time and place, your note, your theme choice, and the photo you uploaded. If you give us your email address, we store it so we can tell you when she says yes. Each invite is stored for one year and then deleted automatically.
Only people with the invite link. Links are random and unguessable, are never listed anywhere, and are not indexed by search engines. We never sell or share invite contents.
When she answers, the page records her answer and, if you bought the stats card, how long she took and how many times she chased the No button. Nothing else about her is collected.
Paid extras are processed by Stripe. Your card details go directly to Stripe and never touch our servers. We keep only a record that an invite was paid for.
If you gave us your email, we send one message when she says yes. We do not send newsletters or marketing.
Questions or a deletion request: hello@ask-her-out.com.